Relationship: That was a big and far too rare aha moment

Whe main thing that has improved my relationships is an increased self-awareness. It all started when my husband and I wrote a book about our love many years ago called What We Know About Love. We realized that we didn’t understand a lot and that’s why we’ve been dealing with the topic intensively ever since. It became our research project, which is still going on because it is so complex and always up to date and never gets boring. With the spirit of research came increased self-awareness and an increasingly conscious interaction with one another. That’s what made it really interesting to observe myself instead of identifying with my behavior and just looking at my outside. That changed the most. To perceive as I perceive. The other day I noticed how I mean…